Since our Sangha began the journey of creating Rinpoche’s Dharma Center two years ago, we have displayed growing generosity. In particular, this past month, the generosity coming from near and far has been inspiring to witness. Besides the amazing material gifts, many people have stepped forward to volunteer their time, energy and talents in preparing to close on our new building and begin to make it our own. Rinpoche and Allison would like to acknowledge the beneficence of the Sangha and thank you for coming together again in creating this lovely vision which will benefit so many.
Giving is the first of the six paramitas – which are the way we practice action Bodhichitta. Rinpoche reminds us in The Union of Dzogchen and Bodhichitta that Chandrakirti said:
The cause for easing suffering
Arises from the practice of generosity.
Our destination is to escape suffering through the attainment of enlightenment, and help others to do so as well. This points to the significance of generosity as a method we should use for pacifying the suffering of ourselves and others.
We give to others through offering the actions of our body, speech and mind. This could be thought to include not only material wealth, but also protection of the defenseless, our own merit and root of virtue, and especially giving the Dharma. (Thank you, Rinpoche!) But how does generosity diminish suffering exactly?
When we give to others, we are helping ourselves by freeing ourselves of our deeply ingrained selfishness. (Are you wise-selfish or foolish-selfish? The Dalai Lama wants to know… ) When we give, we get! The karmic benefit for giving is twofold: not only has another being been helped, but also a measure of freedom from attachment has been attained. This is something we must habituate ourselves to through constant and mindful repetition. The action of generosity is a method for keeping our minds open and spacious, as it brings up the interdependence of all things. Through awareness of the needs of others combined with letting go of the things we have which can meet these needs, we can find serenity in benefiting others.
Giving from the heart is easier when we recognize the impermanent and dis-satisfactory nature of samsara. What is the use of being so attached to our selves and our things, if not to chain us to the suffering of this world? Habituated delusion is not many a splendid thing. Society at large would have us believe that material wealth and status are the source of happiness in our lives. But we have seen time and time again that beyond common needs – a basic level of living including food, shelter, clothing, and love – more material comforts do not bring us more happiness. In the best of times, they can bring fleeting happiness and stronger attachment.
An important point to consider is that although worldly generosity is proper conduct, it is not transcendent! We need the proper motivation driving our conduct to transform our generosity into transcendence. We must establish our intention in our giving to be the benefit of all sentient beings. This is the omnipotent combination of method and wisdom. Dedicating the merit to the benefit of all other sentient beings is paramount, and can be done over and over again, even when we remember an act of giving we have previously completed.
Prior mindful examination of your intention in giving will allow a shift such that your giving can come from your heart, free from the stains of hope and fear. Hope and fear diminish our generous actions, and we should guard against this contamination. Rinpoche reminds us that at the very least, we are able to aspire to one day be able to give our wealth, roots of virtue, and even our own lives, for the benefit of all.
Let us rejoice in the generosity of our kind Sangha! Let us resolve to remain in generosity unceasingly, “withholding not a thing, to being about the benefit of all sentient beings!”
Tell us how giving has helped you in ways expected or unexpected, we’d love to hear from you.
And, have a wonderful Nyungne!
With Love,
Sarah
